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Oh I like Poppy’s line.

Mine is : “There is no sure for stupid.”

Usually muttered while walking away from said idiot.


comment by Fogspinner  on  11/12  at  01:30 AM
Vicious Vikki

I don’t have to wonder. I’m often told how moody or how bitchy I am… when I’m in a perfectly GOOD mood. Go figure.

You should email me your xbox gamertag and I’ll add you!

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comment by Vicious Vikki  on  11/12  at  02:17 AM

Isn’t Poppy a trip?  Just love what flies out of that mouth.  Good for you on the shopping trip...never pay retail, my love.  Never.  It is the first rule of Princess shopping.

CP.


comment by CP  on  11/12  at  02:51 AM
Girl, Dislocated

I don’t wonder if people think I’m moodier than I think I am.  I KNOW that people think I’m moodier than I KNOW I am.

Though I can’t tell you if you’re moody or not because I don’t know you well enough to make that judgment, I will say this:  While sometimes there are things we don’t realize about ourselves until they’re pointed out to us by others, in the majority of cases, I think we know ourselves better than anyone else does.

I can think of a few possible reasons why people would call you moody:

1. They’re of the opinion that reasonable reactions to outside circumstances qualifies as moodiness.  Unless your mood vacillates based on trivial events, I don’t think it’s fair to call you moody just because your mood changed, particularly if the degree of change is proportionate to the event.  For example, if someone starts the day in a cheerful mood, but then gets into a bad car accident, I wouldn’t call their change in disposition “moodiness.” Actually, I’d be worried if they were still smiling after the accident.

2.  If you’re the type of person who doesn’t discuss your problems with others, people who see you looking angry or depressed may just attribute it to moodiness for lack of a better explanation--especially if you later find or do something that will make you happier.  To them this looks like you were randomly upset one minute and then randomly happy the next.  This is my problem.  Although I’m usually pretty good at hiding the fact that I’m upset in the first place, there is a point where it begins to show in my demeanor, and that’s when I get called moody.  In my opinion, it’s a good thing that you make the conscious decision and effort to improve your mood, regardless of what people say about your mood upswing.

3.  You are moody.  That might be true if you often can’t pinpoint the reason your mood has changed, or if minor events have a bigger impact on your mood than they should.  For example, when the morons at Dunkin Donuts screw up your iced vanilla latte at the beginning of your work day, do you go through the rest of the day assaulting every co-worker who gets on your nerves or trashing the homes of annoying patients?

No?  Then I think you’re alright!  cool smile


comment by Girl, Dislocated  on  11/12  at  03:40 AM
Avitable

I only have one mood, and that’s happy.  I don’t really get upset or depressed, so I know I don’t flip flop at all.


comment by Avitable  on  11/12  at  08:39 AM

I am moodier than people think I am. But I deal with babies all day and I have to wear my “happy face”. I don’t get alot of time with my family after they get home from work so I TRY to be nice then too.


comment by metalmom  on  11/12  at  10:04 AM

Sweetheart, anything anyone says here about whether or not you are moody is worth shit compared to The Steff’s opinion.  She gets to see you, unedited - and not in self-selected snap shots. wink

And, I think I am actually MOODIER than people realize.  There is a lot of shit going on in my head that a lot of people never hear.  Thank God.


comment by Miss Britt  on  11/12  at  10:21 AM

That’s what I get like when I’m PMSing… welcome to my world


comment by Amanda  on  11/12  at  10:59 AM
Poppy

Allow me to clarify, since I don’t prefer to take credit for other people’s work, that the quote is from a list I found somewhere.  I’ve never actually said that phrase to anyone.

But, I have said, “failure to plan on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part” which (if you read between the lines) is kinda equivalent. smile

And, how the hell did I miss out on this Steff stuff?  Is that why you IMd me a few days ago???!????


comment by Poppy  on  11/12  at  11:28 AM
Poppy

PS - You are moody.  But, that’s not a bad thing.


comment by Poppy  on  11/12  at  11:42 AM
Donna

I used to have that quote on my yahoo profile like 7 years ago.  Actually it was a little banner pic.  I haven’t looked at my yahoo profile in a while, but I think the one on there now says, “do I look like a freaking people person?”

Moody is kind of a catchall phrase.  I am not moody.  If I wake up bitchy, I’ll be bitchy all day.  If I wake up happy, I’ll be happy all day unless something stupid happens but then I pretty much go right back to happy with ease.

Geekman is moody...his mood changes over the course of a day.

I think lots of people think that people like me are moody too.

You seem pretty normal to me...as in you seem like me...you have daily moods not minute by minute moods.

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I don’t have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem


comment by Donna  on  11/12  at  11:58 AM
NYC Watchdog

Fogspinner- That’s a good one too… but I don’t think I’d walk away saying it.

Viscious- I think its the difference between how YOU feel and how you are making THEM feel.  Sadly… I’m not on Live yet… hopefully after Thanksgiving.

CP- Honestly I wouldn’t try to pay at all… but some places frown upon that.

Girl, Dislocated- I think I may be a #2 as well… only of course I’m super sized.

Avi- So your the male version of Mary Friggin’ Poppins.  You should sell the movie rights to Richard Bay… he’ll have you happy AND blowing shit up.

Metalmom- Well at least you put up a facade… apparently I don’t facade enough.

Britt- This is actually a very very good point… but then it saddens me to think that I portray myself in selected snapshots when I’ve thought I’ve been relatively… well… unselect.

Amanda- I’ve been to your world and back… and I have t-shirts and divorce papers to prove it.

Poppy- Clarification duly noted… but your the place I saw it so your the place that in my mind gets the credit.  I haven’t mentioned alot of the stuff… because… well… I just haven’t really… but yeah, that was one thing I was going to tell you… but you wisely chose food over drama.

P.S. So does this mean my mood changed in the all of two hours in the airport?????  Holy hell!!!  I’m worse than I thought!!!

Miss Ann- I should have known you Yahooed!!! I think that I’m the same… wake up and that’s my day until something acute changes me… but then I can go back.  So it makes me wonder if people see me the same way as I see myself.

“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll


comment by NYC Watchdog  on  11/12  at  12:36 PM
Donna

I still think you’re ordinary and normal.  And while you might be going, “OMG!  Ordinary?  Normal?!” I’m thinking, I really like ordinary and normal.

Course, I like crazy and dsyfunctional too...it’s all good.

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I don’t have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem


comment by Donna  on  11/12  at  12:46 PM
Poppy

I didn’t choose food over you.  I told you I was about to go get food and you said “see ya.” (sigh)

Your mood at the airport didn’t change.  I agree with Miss Ann that your daily mood changes.  And that’s a good thing.


comment by Poppy  on  11/12  at  12:47 PM
NYC Watchdog

Miss Ann- Its scary you know me so well and that I’d be all ohh  grrr  gulp about being “ordinary and normal”.  I prefer crazy and dysfunctional though… which if I really am… then that would be normal and I’d be all goosh.

Poppy- You made the right choice with the food.  I think a daily change can be good… I’m just not so sure I like the prospect of minute by minute or hourly changes.  Then I would consider myself unstable… and that’s no goosh.

“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll


comment by NYC Watchdog  on  11/12  at  12:57 PM
Donna

Geekman is moody but I don’t think he’s unstable.  He’s just...a Cancer.

Which you are and which I have on my ascendant.

We’re all fucked.

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I don’t have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem


comment by Donna  on  11/12  at  01:05 PM
NYC Watchdog

Damn.  Did I ever even have a fighting chance?

“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll


comment by NYC Watchdog  on  11/12  at  06:06 PM

Yeah, I have that saying on a tee-shirt.

Got it last xmas. smile


comment by adena  on  11/13  at  01:24 AM

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