I dunno… seems that I’ve been waiting since at least 1983.
That’s a pretty good letter. I need to practice more at being one of the bad guys.
My sister is “that girl”. That’s why she’s a forty year old barfly who calls me up when she’s drunk only to moan,"Why can’t I get a man?” Stupid bitch.
I love nice guys.
I outgrew the badboy thing but it took me the majority of my 20’s to get it.
Thankfully, I gave up being a shallow bitch and found a good guy on my very first try.
I think for some women, they never get past shallow bitch...but the same is very true of men.
For men it’s all about looks. Men don’t date the nice girl who’s 20 lbs overweight. They date the hot blonde with implants who is a ‘shallow bitch’ and then they whine about it.
It’s a 2-way street and I’ve seen it from both sides.
I’ll never forget being a chubby 14 year old with a crush on a guy who said to me, and I quote: “You would make a really good girlfriend if you weren’t fat.”
It’s the way of life and men and women are equally guilty. Some day a very lucky woman is gonna snap you up and then I won’t have a back up husband.
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I don’t have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem
I’m with Avitable. I need to work on my bastard skills.
Sometimes “nice guys” aren’t as nice as they appear on the surface.
Just sayin’.
I was married to a “nice guy.” You know how that went. The last “nice guy” I dated fucking broke my heart into roughly 10,000 pieces. I don’t want “nice,” I just want real.
I want a “nice guy” who is real. Not a nice guy just to get me into the sack. A REAL nice guy.
Dave2- I hope you’ve bought stock in KY by now
Avi- I think you have the “bad act” down pat… you just suck at keeping up the front
Melissa- Yes… yes they do…
Britt- Here here!
Metalmom- There is still time for your sister to see the light…
Miss Ann- True as always to a large degree… because personally it was never about weight for me but height… and your totally right that it does happen on both sides… so a toast to the nice girls as well!
Joe- Yes you do… alot.
Poppy- While I agree with your general assessment… I think you’ll never know a TRUE nice guy or girl from the surface… and not just scratch it either… it needs to be dug.
Monique- I feel ya… being “real” is more important than being “nice"…
Lucy- You just want it all dontcha! Well you deserve it too so don’t settle!!!
“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll
And you are...? A nice guy? (Cuz I’m stupid enough to just believe people when they tell me.)
I would never be either so presumptuous or pretentious.
BUT when 99% of the people you know tell you your boyfriend is a douchebag and that your passing up on a legitimate nice guy… then there’s something to it.
“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll
Wait, 99% of people have been telling me I have a douchey boyfriend?! Geeeeeeeez. I guess I need to pay more attention to those talking water bags around me.
(Bwah.)
What makes someone a not nice guy? And, do you have those not nice guy qualities? Dig deep, Dawg!
Oh my goodness! Your surrounded by water bags too!!!
Deep questions… too deep for comments… maybe a post… one day. Let’s just say… as I’ve already said before… I’m pretty damaged.
“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll
I’m with Miss Ann. If I were half as good with words as she is I would have said the exact same thing, but, meh - as it is I am not.
You know, I was told something close to what she was when I was a single mom. I’d make a good wife if I could become more “arm candy” than arm chair candy. Not so good on the ego, I’m tellin’ ya.
When I was 100 pounds underweight and half dead from starvation, I had guys lining up at my door...the bad boy type who wanted to break me for a night and sweep me under the rug because I wanted “relationship” status. When I began to carry a little extra baggage, suddenly I was avoided like the plague. I had my chance with a nice guy, and blew it somehow. Maybe cuz I wasn’t as ‘shallow bitch’ as they originally thought I was? Who knows. I gave up trying to figure the whole thing out.
We are all to a certain degree… mine just seem to runs deeper than most…
“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll
I know what you mean… I always heard the whole “Well if you just...” Meanwhile I just thought it was more important to be me as opposed to what others wanted me to be. I wish others thought that way… but they don’t and there’s no way to make them.
While Miss Ann may be good with words… and articulating them in her Miss Ann fashion… your just as good with words… only articulating it in that Heartless Lass fashion.
Far better than I considering I copied the post.
“In each of us two natures are at war… the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, but one of them must conquer. In our own hands lies the power to choose. What we want most to be we are.” – Dr. Henry Jekyll
ey em rly gud wit wurds. ei juss opin mi mouf n dey juss fal owt.
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I don’t have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem
roflmfao @ Miss Ann
I spewed Modelo thru my nostrils at that one. Now let someone throw some pick up lines my way after that horribly sexay display!!!
This guy’s a smartarse dickwad.
All females do want a white knight, and male cocks take advantage of that.
Good always wins over evil male cocksuckers
Mine is the nicest guy ever and has been walked all over his whole life until he found a nice girl :D
Life is not a movie. Good guys lose, everybody lies, and love… does not conquer all.
"I spewed Modelo thru my nostrils at that one. Now let someone throw some pick up lines my way after that horribly sexay display!!! “
Ooooh, baby...... I love a woman with a freshly rinsed septum...... If that were Negro Modelo, we’d be soulmates.....
I met a nice guy, who wasn’t my type. Oh, no. We were just going to be friends.
Well, until I married him 11 months later.
I’m 17 and I’ve been “that nice guy” for four different women. The one girl who actually went out with me did so for one year, and dumped me the day after valentines day. I don’t want to be a therapist, I want to be a boyfriend. I guess always being there means jack-shit.
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